If you’ve ever said, “I want to run my business full time, but I need a paycheck,” this one’s for you.
I hear some version of that on almost every strategy call I have. “I can’t quit my day job yet, but I don’t want to be there forever.” “I know what I want to build. I just don’t know how to get there without losing my income.”
So let me say this right at the top: you are not behind. You are not failing at your business because you still have a job. You’re in a season, and it can be one of the most powerful seasons you’ll ever have if you use it on purpose.
On this week’s episode of The Classy Career Girl Podcast, I’m sharing how I built my business while I was still working full time, why the in-between isn’t a failure, and five tips for building while you still have a paycheck.
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I didn’t quit right away either
I started Classy Career Girl in 2010 while I was working in corporate. I went to work at seven, came home at five, and did a good job there. Then, at night and early in the morning, I built my business.
I didn’t leave my corporate job until August 1, 2014. That’s about four years of building on the side.
I’ll be honest, there were so many days I wanted to just jump. I’d see other people quitting and going all in, and I’d think, “What’s wrong with me? Why am I still here?”
Looking back, that paycheck was a gift. It paid our bills while I figured out what actually worked. It let me make decisions from a calm place instead of a scared one. And it meant my business didn’t have to be perfect on day one.
If you’re still at your job right now, try not to see it as the thing holding you back. Right now, it might be the thing paying for your dream.
The in-between is okay
Most of us think there are only two options. Stay at the job forever and let the dream go, or quit tomorrow, cross your fingers, and hope it works.
There’s another way, and it’s the one most of the successful women I know actually took. You keep the paycheck for a season and build with a plan, so that leaving is a decision and not a leap of faith with no net.
The in-between can feel uncomfortable. You’re tired. You feel like you’re living two lives and giving neither one your best. But the in-between isn’t where you’re stuck. It’s where you’re building.
What kept me steady wasn’t having it all figured out. It was being anchored to something bigger than my job title or my revenue number. When you’re anchored, the in-between stops feeling like drifting and starts feeling like preparation.
Name your season
The first step to living in the in-between on purpose is naming your season. That’s not about doing it all. It’s the opposite. It’s saying out loud, “This is what this season holds, and this is what it doesn’t.”
It might sound like, “Right now, I’m in a season of keeping my job while I get my first paying clients.” Or, “Right now, I’m building my business to replace half my income before I leave.”
When you name it, you stop comparing yourself to the woman who’s already full time, because she’s in a different season. You get honest about how many hours you really have. And you stop feeling guilty that your business isn’t getting forty hours a week, because this season was never going to give you forty hours.
Then put a number on it. Not “someday I’ll leave.” What would need to be true for you to go full time? A certain number of clients? A certain amount of monthly income? A certain amount in savings? When you name the number, the in-between gets an end date.
A few hours can go a long way
Some of my most focused, productive seasons in business were the ones where I had the least time.
When you only have a few hours, you stop wasting them. You stop saying yes to everything. You stop rewriting your website for the fifth time. You do the few things that actually bring in clients and income.
So if you have five hours a week, or ten, or just your early mornings before work, please don’t hear that as “not enough.” A small season can be a strong season. It just has to be a focused one.
Here’s where I’d spend those hours: conversations with real people who might need what you offer, helping someone before you ever ask for the sale, and one clear plan for the next 90 days instead of a vague goal for someday.
5 tips for building while you still have a paycheck
1. Pick one offer
Not a course, a membership, a coaching package, and a digital product all at once. One offer, for one kind of person, with one clear result. When your time is limited, one offer is the only thing you can actually sell well.
2. Start with one-on-one clients
One-on-one is the fastest way to bring in real income and learn what your clients actually struggle with. Four clients is a great first goal. Put each one on a 90-day plan, then build from there.
3. Practice before you charge, if you need to
There’s nothing wrong with a few practice clients. In our Career Coach Certification we recommend ten practice sessions, because it builds your skill and your confidence at the same time. My very first client was my best friend, and I coached her for free. It got me started.
4. Help one person every day
This is my signature habit, and it doesn’t have to be paid. It could be a post, a message, a quick call, or answering a coworker’s question about her career. Conversations create clients, and those conversations start with helping before you ever sell.
5. Guard one protected block every week
You don’t need to overhaul your whole schedule. Pick your best energy hours, whether that’s early mornings before work or Saturday mornings, put one block on your calendar, give it one job, and guard it like a meeting with your boss. Because it is. You’re the boss of this business.
One bonus tip, because it comes up on calls: check your employer’s policy on outside work. A woman on a call with me recently wrote a simple letter asking her employer for permission to run a business on the side, making it clear there was no conflict of interest. It took the fear out of it and let her build in the open.
Your next career may already be inside you
When you’re stuck in a job you’ve outgrown, it’s easy to think your calling is out there somewhere and you have to go find it. I believe it’s already inside you, and sometimes you just have to slow down long enough to notice it.
Here’s how to start. Pay attention when someone says, “You’re really good at that.” Notice what your coworkers keep coming to you for, the advice they ask for, the thing that feels easy to you but hard for everyone else.
For so many of the women I talk to, that thing is helping people with their careers. You’re the one your friends call before a big interview. You’re the one who helps your team figure out their next step. You might already be coaching and just not getting paid for it yet.
Your next step this week
Name your season. Put a number on what full time would take. Use the hours you have on the few things that bring in income.
And if your calling is helping other women with their careers, this might be your moment. Applications for this year’s Career Coach Certification close soon, and it’s built for women in the in-between, women building something while they still have a job. You’ll get a clear plan, real clients, and a coach in your corner so you can build the income that lets you leave on your terms.
Apply for the Career Coach Certification here, fill out the short application, and we’ll set up a call to see if it’s the right fit for your season.
I’m so proud of you for being here and for not giving up on what you want to build. You’ve got this.




